Interests
Kink and BDSM
My interests, desires, and proclivities are eclectic and wide-ranging, and include:
Chastity
Impact play (canes are my favorite, followed closely by whips and paddles)
Objectification and dehumanization (pet play, human furniture, and beyond)
Tease and denial
GS/WS
Humiliation and embarrassment play
Degradation (verbal and physical)
Cuckolding
Goddess and body worship
Role play (no scripts)
Sensory deprivation
Submissive training
Service
Trampling
Boot, heel, and foot worship
SO play
Feminine transformation*
*Though this can also fall under the realm of sissification or crossdressing, my approach to this is a bit different. I do not believe there is anything inherently humiliating in embodying femininity, and find this idea to be rooted in misogyny. Thus, this is not a focus of these types of dynamics for me. While we can certainly play with feelings of shame and humiliation around femininity in such a way as to question, subvert, and heal them, my overall orientation to this dynamic is one of revering and inducting you into your femininity, inside and out.
Hard Limits
Brown, Roman, and ruby showers
Food play/sploshing
Heavy medical play
Forced intoxication
Degradation on the basis of race, weight, or disability
Fetish
Fetish holds a special place in my heart, where my reverence for femme and kink aesthetics intersect with sexuality to endow objects with an erotic-spiritual charge I find both electrifying and deeply mystical. Whatever it is, I want to use your fetish object(s) to entrance you, take you under to a place where your egoic self dissolves and you are fully consumed by your desire—and, once you’re ready, bring you back up to the surface, satiated and at peace. Co-creating a space of thrumming, trance-like erotic energy through fetish play is one of my most deeply treasured experiences. I understand that not all fetishists are interested in other elements of BDSM or kink, and welcome those who prefer to focus their sessions entirely on fetish play. I am also skilled at working through the shame, guilt, and inner conflict that can often arise around fetishes and non-normative genders and sexualities; your time with me is a nonjudgmental, open space to fully embody and experience your erotic desires.
My own fetishes include leather, high heels (including thigh-high boots), fine silk, lipstick, and long painted nails, and I love getting to indulge in these with like-minded individuals. I also adore playing with fur, fine jewelry, lingerie, latex, and flowers. I’m open-minded and endlessly curious, and I love hearing about and playing with a wide range of fetishes—I want to know what brings you to your knees, and take you there, with vigor.
Aesthetics
I adore dressing up, the more lavish and perverse the better, and would be happy to work with you to craft a look where my own personal style and your fantasies, fetishes, and predilections meet. Gifting me a custom outfit for our time together is even better. My extensive wardrobe includes leather, latex, fur, fine lingerie, and formalwear, and I can gracefully accommodate requests within these parameters. Note: I don’t do casual; I relax in fine loungewear and lipstick (when I’m wearing anything at all, that is), and I haven’t worn a T-shirt and jeans since early high school. Don’t ask.
Women, Trans, and Non-Binary Clients
I am a queer, bisexual, high femme woman, and absolutely love playing with other queer people of all genders and sexualities. My understanding of gender and sexuality is expansive, and I deeply treasure being able to create space in which you and I are both experienced exactly as we wish to be. Queer leather history is a particular personal interest of mine, and I would love to discuss this with you—or incorporate themes drawn from this lineage into our sessions.